Get Focused
Do You
Have Shiny Bright Object Syndrome? How to Get Focused and Finish What You Start
(on Time)
Many if not most of the
entrepreneurs I work with have a bit of this
“syndrome.” We think, “What’s this new and
exciting thing?” (Then, 5 minutes later)
“Oh- woah, what’s that new and exciting
thing?!” This is you if you:
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Work with
10 windows open at once on your
computer.
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Have 5
books that you’ve begun but haven’t
finished.
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Get a rush
from starting something new.
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Have
diverse interests and hate to be locked
in to one thing.
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Are
extremely busy but often unaware of what
you complete.
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Are easily
bored and often looking for something
that will interest you.
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Have been
described as “well-rounded,” “A
renaissance-type,” or “ADD.”
In fact, there
is a personality trait called “Sensation
Seeking,” which many entrepreneurs possess.
It’s one of the more genetic personality
traits and it entails enjoying novelty and
dislike routine.
In a great book
called Refuse to Choose, author Barbara Sher
creates a profile of what she calls
“Scanners.” A Scanner is someone who meets
the above criteria and who has difficulty
limiting themselves to one field. The
difficulty is that Scanners believe they
need to limit themselves, so they
continuously feel disappointed in themselves
and that they are letting down others.
This is why
Scanners frequently experience discomfort.
Instead Sher recommends embracing your
Scanner ways. Carry a notebook like DaVinci
used to have to write down all your
brilliant brainstorms and all-over-the-place
thoughts.
Sher recommends
backward planning. Start with your end goal
and write it in a circle on the right of a
horizontal piece of paper. Then ask
yourself, “Could I achieve that goal right
now? If not, what would I need?” then write
that in a circle to the left and ask
yourself the same question. Keep doing this
until you get to an action that you can do
right now and then circle it and say “Now!”
Action Steps
These action
steps are based on the 6 step GROWTH model
in my book
The Confident Leader:
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Step 1:
Get Your Vision and Intention —
Picture how you’ll feel when you’re
done. It can be exciting to start
new things, but instead envision the
wonderful feeling you’ll have when you
get something done and check it off your
list.
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Step 2:
Realize Your Commitment — Are you
really ready? Maybe you’re beginning
many different things because you aren’t
ready to commit to the one. Figure out
which one is the most important or
easiest and commit to that one.
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Step 3:
Organize Your Team — Get
accountable. Ask your colleagues and
set up joint venture partnerships to
hold you accountable for doing what you
say you’re going to do when you say
you’re going to do it. This
accountability will help you form new
habits.
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Step 4:
Win with the Right Decisions –
Decide what not to do. Saying no to
those things that do not fit within our
strategic plan is the key to focus and
productivity.
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Step 5:
Turn Anxiety into Optimal Energy
— Overcome your fears. Write down
what you’re concerned will happen if you
keep focused on one (or two or three)
things and let others go.
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Step 6:—
Harness Your Strengths and
Release Control – Engage your strengths
in every task. When faced with
something you don’t feel like doing,
challenge yourself to use your strengths
to make it successful.
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